Saturday, September 11, 2010

Ideas to follow as the first day

Ideas para seguir como el primer día

On more than one occasion that you've heard that kills love coexistence. But we are not fatalistic: you can live and be just as love at first. But if you like that feel that the relationship with your kid is not the same as before and miss the beginning of yours, we tell you some tricks to rekindle the flame.

  • Look at the positive: with the passage of time, we realize that many of the wonderful things we see in our partner was the result of an idealization (normal at first), and is not so great nor perfect. The key is knowing how to see its flaws as a part of your child, and appreciate the good. Besides, you also have yours, right?

  • Fighting each other, but rather: not ever challenging is not a good sign in a relationship, so we're not going to say do not argue with your boyfriend, but when you do, be in an appropriate manner. In other words, no insults, reproaches or recriminations. Focus on the issue in which you discuss and find a solution.
  • Surprise!: Back to surprise your child with a surprise dinner at home with a gift (do not have to be expensive, but a special detail for him), with a gesture that will not wait ... The novelty and surprise will help re-ignite that spark of principle.

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